Being good is not being right. A sign in a rehab center says, “Do you want to be right, or get well?”
My wife is often wrong. But so am I. Is that fixed by arguing about who's right? Progress begins when we realize, “I'm not O.K. and you're not O.K., but that's O.K.” Love isn't hurt by imperfection but by certainty. When we're sure we're “right,” we forg…
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